More than Words

Today’s entry is a lesson in non-verbal communication. There are three gestures in particular which have been invaluable tools when our language skills fell short.

1) “Wait!”
When you see this sign, the speaker is signaling to you to wait. Used on a daily basis by Damascus residents, you’ll be in trouble if you don’t recognize what it means! With your palm facing the ceiling, pull all your fingers together as if curled around an upright, invisible egg. With your hand thus formed, slowly move it up and down two or three times.

2) “Bill please.”
For the longest time, we could not figure out how to get waiters here to bring the check. For some reason it was one of those cultural barriers which was growing increasingly frustrating. Once we learned this signal from a Syrian friend, however, it has worked like a charm every time! Hold one hand up like a sheet of paper, and with the fingers of your other hand draw a line from your palm to the end of your fingers (as illustrated in the photos).

3) “I hold you in my heart.”
When walking in the streets near our home, we often pass people we know but may not have time to chat with right then. While passing by, we greet them and hold one hand to our heart. This signifies that we care about them. This gesture can also be used when welcoming someone to your home, saying thank you, or in most any social interaction. Touching your hand to your heart shows added personal concern and care.